For me, I just think, "Hey, look, it's people who are members of a community that uses computers every time they log on, isn't THAT a suprising thing to be interested in!" And being interested in sex, as an "interest," just seems a) creepy (I mean, come on, think about how interested I am in singing, then translate my singing in the car on the way to work, going to the library to get new music, and then performing with Howard at the bar into "sex," and you'll see what I mean) or b) ridiculously obvious (since it's necessary for survival I'd rank it with "eating," "sleeping," and "breathing" as just not worth mentioning).
On the other hand ... I think it's the kind of interest that is best not pursued publicly. As to my levels of interest in the matter, I suppose I'll let you be the judge. (Unfortunately putting "sex with wechsler
" on my interest list would meet my qualification of being both highly specific and very accurate, but strikes me as tacky in extremis
Funny how the link read to me as "LJ to Pints," which made me think of either conversations one might have in a bar or topic that would make you say "Hey, I'll drink to that!"